theres so many posts telling minors not to date adults but heres a post for the responsible people: if youre an adult dont date a minor
even if you “feel like a child” in your 20s you are still a legal adult with all the responsibility that comes with it. you are being creepy
you are the one with all the power in the relationship, stop forcing all the responsibility onto the literal child. stop making posts absolving yourself of this by telling kids to stay away from adults instead of telling other adults to not date minors
its nice that there are a lot of really good analogies (e.g. the moving furniture friendzone example, equating the “they were asking for it” rape argument to saying “don’t bring your wallet out if you don’t want to be mugged” etc.) but it also pisses me off that it’s like jumping through flaming hoops to get the avg person to understand basic human principles like “dont assault others”